Originally Posted By: u-turn


She is indicating that she wants to make us work. She asked again if we can - and I told her it will take work from both of us. she agreed.

I said that I want to do this the right way - she agreed.


Has she agreed to complete no-contact with OM (send him a letter, with you approving it and mailing it) and full transparency with you?

How about MCing, with a counselor specifically trained to deal with infidelity?

Anything else on your "short list" of core "dealbreakers" that I'm SURE you've been thinking about these past 10 months? smirk

Now would be the time.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)