But thank you for being real and voicing what some of us in this same sitch feel but can't always articulate. I hear you loud and clear and feel you on what you say. I get it. Keep chugging along. Remember this may be how things are right now but right now isn't forever.
Sweet T0, thank you so much for this validation, darlin'. And for reminding me that "this, too, shall pass."

The weight is lifting. It occurred to me ... at 3 a.m. TODAY (Feb. 20) that yesterday was the antiversary of BD. Now read that again. Here I thought yesterday was going to be terrible, and I didn't even THINK of BD on Feb. 19!!!

So, yes, I do believe I see a light at the end of the tunnel. (But that suggests, of course, that I'm still in the tunnel.)

What a way to ruin a nice dinner/evening out.... way to go me... NOT!
LOL!!!! I don't mean to laugh, twin, but I am picturing you getting wasted at a fancy restaurant and then just letting it rip!

That gave me a good chuckle.

Honey, I have ruined no less than a dozen dates having unexpected meltdowns the past year. (I'm sure the drinks don't help. But you've earned them!)

I bet that 3-page report is freakin' awesome!!! laugh


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014