Anything next level here I am not thinking of Starsky? Stopping by when I know they will both be in the home "because I forgot to grab something"
No. Too apparent and needy!
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or having a friend post on FB that I was a dancing foo (which I am normally not because I am self consious) or anything like that to go next level?
Let your new-and-improved, fun, busy, interesting life be naturally captured organically, 4mend. Don't force it or gameplay it. Trust me, she'll find out -- she's a woman!
Starsky
As you get more and more dancing legs and confidence under you, she will see it in your spirit. I wouldn't have a problem of you doing a whole bunch of facebook posting of you bar hopping, having fun, going on trips, hobbies, volunteer work, etc showing you engaged, having fun and living life.
Don't do it to prove to her, but you do it to get your focus on putting you into these environments. Plus if anyone has been hearing the sad sap stories of you being cheated, they will see you are doing quite nicely.