I think we're too far along in our sitch to really consider it now (unless something really goes wrong) so this is more of an academic discussion. Early on I wouldn't entertain the idea of a trial separation; my stance was that trials didn't work and just made it easier to D, and avoiding D was the only thing I cared about back then. The problem is that we spent too much time in each other's faces; it made it harder for me to detach and I think the separation could have helped W realize what life without me really entailed. Of course, she could have decided it was better :-)
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood