Update and question...so W just messaged me again a number of minutes later (because we all know she is scrambling to make new or change plans with OW because of my bold move) "any clue when you will be home?"
She is either hoping I am gone for the evening so OW can come over to our home while I am gone or she is waiting for me to come home so she can turn around and leave.
My gut would be to tell her an appropriate time I would be home because my parents raised me right but my new DB brain says the answer to her question is simply "No" and leave it at that. I am out having fun and don't know when the fun will end right? Right
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14