I knew who you were before I got to the third line of your message.
The message from Pam sounded so different from the messages I've been reading over the past couple of months (after her initial problem with you being naughty after she went to sleep). She has been so upbeat. Suddenly, she's talking about leaving. WTF? You guys must've had a fight, and that's none of my business, but the two of you seem to have come so far in just a couple of months.
Pam, chill out. Don't do anything rash. Remember that one of the only things within your control is your attitude and the reactions you have to what happens around you. You can choose to see everything as bad or dark, or you can choose to see everything as a lesson from which to learn. This guy obviously loves you. It took him a lot of courage to come on here, in the middle of a bunch of Pam supporters, and admit who he was. I give him big gobs of credit. In fact, since I am unable to, could you give him a big sloppy kiss from Hairdog?
Mr. Pam (I'm not going to call you "confused H" because, face it, we're ALL confused), stick with her. The biggest virtue we HDs can have is patience. Treat her with respect and loving kindness. Be confident. Take a shower at least once a week whether you need it or not. How can she resist you?
