I've read DR, loved the book it really spoke to me, funny how every time I have been reading it and thinking to myself, "But how does this relate to me" the next paragraph is perfect.

Anyways my wife moved to her parents 1 months ago (been married 12 years), I'm looking for tips on using what I've learned in DR with a W who doesn't live at home right now, it's not easy when you don't talk or see her often. Trying to give her space and not push, since last time we talked she says she just needs her space.

Thanks.


M42 W41
D17 Step-D17 S10 S8
Married 11, Together 14
Separated 1 Month, W living at her parents
Bomb: 1/16/2015 "I don't feel close to you, I feel distant."