Thanks Dawn, a few pages back I put links to all my threads. Was doing some personal time-travel with them the other day and things have improved a lot, if not in all the ways I would have liked.
Just keep on keeping on really, and as per the books sentiment do what works both for the r/db but also for you
Hang in there bud
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015