You got it, challenge it is. We need to take charge of our own lives Complex. I have come up with every excuse in the world not to make more moves that better me just because deep down I am afraid she is going to get mad at me. I was reading an old thread...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1974895&page=4

I wish I knew all that in March 2014 when I found out about the emotional affair and had successfully broken them apart for a while. I was close and did everything wrong...had no clue. Now, I have a chance, it is slim but it is a chance. And standing up for myself is step #1. Can you stand up for yourself bud? Might be the hardest thing you do? I know it will be for me. I have read old threads on great ideas for GAL. Go GAL, not just workout, we have to go next level. We have to draw attention to us. I will write about an idea I have over on my thread but come on, what yah got Complex?


Me:39 W:33
Married 6/07
D6
Found out about affair 9/14