I feel like a broken record when I comment on your thread but I learn so much from reading your interactions with your W. I am trying so hard to be detached from XH, but with him back here and seeing him every day, I just feel all emotional and jelly-like inside. I am so trying to learn from your example and I actually go back and read some of your old threads to see how you handle things.

Thanks for being a good example! It is more helpful than you know. Oh and keep up the great work with S. I really admire the relationship you have with him.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids