My husband is also depressed though he never admits to it. He will not get help at this time.
He said, "I am sad all the time"....That breaks my heart. But I am learning that I can't help him. He has to do this himself. I hope that he will do this with me but that I cannot control him.
We can only control ourselves, right? I try to focus on the good time we had and picture us being happy in the future.
Me 44; H 48 no kids together; H has D24, D19 M 14; T 18 DB 12/21/14 living together (for now)