My husband is also depressed though he never admits to it. He will not get help at this time.

He said, "I am sad all the time"....That breaks my heart. But I am learning that I can't help him. He has to do this himself. I hope that he will do this with me but that I cannot control him.

We can only control ourselves, right? I try to focus on the good time we had and picture us being happy in the future.


Me 44; H 48
no kids together; H has D24, D19
M 14; T 18
DB 12/21/14
living together (for now)