Let me ask you jim,

If your wife father died regardless of how they got along would you leave her got to family party, then come home for a day to head off for a 2 week holiday.

Would you then punish her if she said she was upset by not coming home, by then state to her face you punished her by not coming home earlier?


I doubt it.
H always got what h aksed for always.

If your wife made an attempt to meet a need you asked for
Would you
A notice and feel like she made an effort
B. Reject her effort
C reject her efforts, critise her effort
D reject her efforts critise her effort and walk out.

H always choose d. I doubt you chose d. Most people do not choose d.
All major disagreement resulted in argument and h running every time and avoiding.

If you pushed the issue, he would yell abuse. Names nasty ones, character attacks massive spew.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26