Hey, I resent that. I am HD but if you come snuggling up on me after a hard day you may get punched. I drive a bus over some of the worst roads in the USA and after I have bounced 9 to 12 hours on my butt I am tired and sore. Yeah, I need some d--- sleep and I will be a lot happier about screwing around if I can get some sleep first. I need about 2 hours, just enough to let the muscles relax.
CeMar is just depressed and he is hurting. I know how it is to live with someone who is depressed and those anti-pills are worst than the disease. But depression left unchecked can kill you and I've made enough funerals to know that as a truth as well as a fact. Depression may not be contagious but living in that environment daily can affect and color how you yourself react to events. In other words, crazy sitch can make you crazy too. CeMar, go do something silly.
I think you are on to something about the missed signals and the misunderstood ones. I look deep in my H eyes trying to communicate sexy vibes and he thinks I'm mad about something. I thought by playing role games during sex that I was telling him I like having fun and can be adventurous he said I was being childish and he wanted a grown woman not some silly child playing games. His telling me to roll over and open my legs, after a day when he hadn't said a kind word to me, was too much like being scolded and punished. He thought, I would know that it was his way of apologizing. So I think we need to identify signals and help each other figure out what our mates are saying. Do you think same sex couples have this much trouble talking to each other?
