"I will be D soon. My STBXW says she is open to dating me again."
GOSH! What do you make of that turn of events Gogofo? Sounds like you may need some vet advice I agree. Could be that 'facing the end' or 'no pressure' has led your W to see you in a different way.
Pleased for you though....
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus