Susana (4) - Do you have to be confusin'?

[susana4]

Hi Susana

Sorry he's having a pullback, but it's good to know it happens and expect /accept it after you've had a positive interaction like the comedy night. When it happens, I think the thing to do is go happily about your own business and leave him to it. Let him go to his cave, don't ask what's wrong etc. Otherwise, it may be pressure.

Yes, for the weekend, I'd be tempted to get my tools out and have a go at the easier parts of the cabinet. I'd also be tempted to have at least a GAL plan of my own arranged. And alongside that, I like the movies/snax ideas maybe for one of the days.

And no expectations, you may broach that idea and he may or may not like it. If he likes it - fine. If he doesn't, you can maybe shrug and happily go off and do something yourself. Just another thought....do you think it's worth taking a more cautious/friendly approach on any 'dates' just now? Wearing a lovely red dress and having 'tickle fights' may be a little more than he can handle and leads to pullback afterwards. IDK - and I'm certainly no vet.....but just a thought.

Hope you have a lovely weekend Susana - whatever you end up doing! :-)

Thanks Toots!

So I suggested the movie/snacks marathon. He wants to watch battle star galactic which he recently started. I'm not invited because he's already partway through, but that's ok.
He said "oh you don't need to" (he always seems to feel bad when I/someone is nice to him)when I suggested the snacks but he had a huge grin on his face and acted like he liked the idea.

Pull back seems to continue this morning so I am making GAL plans for tomorrow.

Hmm yes good point on the dress and tickle fight.
I'd be interested in getting a vets advice here?

For now (as per my DB coaches suggestion) not suggesting any more dates/activities, waiting to see if he does. Of course, he's on pullback mode so don't think he'll be suggesting anything.