When I told him I was going to bed he actually just grunted at me. Lol!
I realised I never just let him go to his cave before because I didn't know what was going on so it freaked me out and I'd just keep asking him what was wrong.
Now that I understand I actually just find it hilarious.
Have you read "Men Are From Mars, Women are From Venus?" It's a classic, and really nails the male dynamic. I'm pretty sure that's where I learned about the "rubber band" thing.
Starsky
Yeah, I read it a couple of weeks ago and spent the whole time going "ohhh I get it now". Wish I'd read it a long time ago!
Are there any sort of guidelines on how long pullback lasts or is it entirely dependent on the individual?
H still seems to be in pull back state this morning.
I was feeling really nauseous this morning (side effects of ADs) and when H noticed I looked unwell he sat down next to me on the bed and gave me a long hug and stroked my hair. But apart from that, he barely looked at or spoke to me all morning. I just left him alone and didn't say much.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
