Hi Cadet, Thanks so much for your input, always appreciated!
I have spent the last few days thinking about what you said - I thought I had let go, I thought I had dropped the rope but I haven't really and will now make a determined effort to do so, thanks for reminding me.
Yes, he is depressed, he hides it from all his new found friends and colleagues in Moscow, they think he is having a great life with lots of women while his W is at home in Ireland looking after things there for him. But I know and yes I want to help him but I know that I can't, I think he wants me to though.............
No, not a magic bullet, but this is his third year in 'replay' and what I am doing in terms of BD is not working, I need to change this and to do what works, I just don't know what that is yet. The only 'needs' I am meeting (as far as I am aware) is that he knows I am here, knows I am leaving the door open - is this something I should change?
I am being patient but I know he is stuck, do I leave him stuck?
