Jim, interesting insight into your W's train of thought and negative interpretations. It sounded to me like she has 'demonised' you - perhaps there's some self-justification for recent choices she has made.

I would never have been unfaithful had he not been so 'AWFUL!' If you weren't so awful, she has to face the truth of some of these choices. That they actually had something to do with parts of her that she may not want to face - and that's hard to do.

Better that you continue being demonic. I guess in time, and if you are consistent in your approach, it may just get harder and harder for her to do that.

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D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus