Sorry he's having a pullback, but it's good to know it happens and expect /accept it after you've had a positive interaction like the comedy night. When it happens, I think the thing to do is go happily about your own business and leave him to it. Let him go to his cave, don't ask what's wrong etc. Otherwise, it may be pressure.
Yes, for the weekend, I'd be tempted to get my tools out and have a go at the easier parts of the cabinet. I'd also be tempted to have at least a GAL plan of my own arranged. And alongside that, I like the movies/snax ideas maybe for one of the days.
And no expectations, you may broach that idea and he may or may not like it. If he likes it - fine. If he doesn't, you can maybe shrug and happily go off and do something yourself. Just another thought....do you think it's worth taking a more cautious/friendly approach on any 'dates' just now? Wearing a lovely red dress and having 'tickle fights' may be a little more than he can handle and leads to pullback afterwards. IDK - and I'm certainly no vet.....but just a thought.
Hope you have a lovely weekend Susana - whatever you end up doing! :-)
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