PS You mentioned you're journaling about what you plan to say to W. If you plan to WRITE something to her - like some of the valuable RobX stuff - post it here first, won't you? We'd all love to give you some feedback on it so you can fine-tune it with little-to-no emotion.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014