It is interesting that you say that. We just got into a big ugly fight. A bad one. He has a very bad temper and I got scared he was going to break something. One of the things that came up was he said he hasn't been rude to me and I brought up the going out and such. He said that it was to drown his sorrow not to hurt me. So you are right on there. However the ugliness of this fight, made me really question if I want to stay in this marriage. The only thing that I am holding on to is that he is in a very bad place right now, and is acting out of pain. But I don't know how much longer I can make excuses for him.
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015