Thanks Mozza. I'll make sure I'll get on my own issues with the IC asap. Like you said shes still listening to my R stuff a good amount of time in the session.

I really see your concern, I admit I move lot in circles but the last couple days I moved into the right direction again. I think I'm very close to really letting go. And the quote from the other thread really helped me. And I don't want to talk my way out of this at all. If I tell her sth like this it'll be the LAST serious thing I'll tell her.
I even think it'll be beneficial and will take tension out of our living situation, IF I 100% follow up with actions.

Mozza I just got to the point where I see that I am really much more worth than this. I know actions are so much more worth than words. I'll give it a second thought If it's really necessary and beneficial to give a last 'announcement'.
Guess I had to many of those already.

Last edited by Complex; 02/20/15 05:09 AM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15