Susana (4) - Do you have to be confusin'?

[susana4]

He did all the dishes and cleaned the kitchen but insisted I not help him and I go read. Not sure what that was about because I wanted to help. I think AoS may be his LL but he won't really ever let me do AoS.

When I do things like this and tell my W that I don't want help and to go do something fun it is because it is a loving action from me. To me it is a feeling that I would rather spend my time doing a chore and helping out so my W could have time doing something that she would like.

Not sure if that is what he is feeling, but that is what I feel when I do the similar things.

Thanks Gogofo. It's nice to have that insight.

Is AoS one of your LL?

Thanks too for the suggestion on fixing something!
He's actually been saying he was going to fix the kitchen cabinets but hasn't yet, I wasn't going to bring it up though because I was worried it might come across as nagging.

Any suggestions on phrasing to make it seem not like nagging?