Susana (4) - Do you have to be confusin'?

[susana4]

Susana,

Don't read too much into H's pullback. He's probably feeling somewhat flummoxed himself with last night's flirtation and teensy bit vulnerable there.

I have an idea for this weekend. Why don't you make it an adventure with H? How about a Three Stooges marathon with his favorite snacks and drinks? Or do Godfather marathon. I'd go with Three Stooges because laughter releases good-feelings and you will bond over watching their films.

Remember...light & breezy.

I love playing Scrabble board games....you?

I like this. H loves my cooking more than anything so I'm sure he'd be really excited if I did snacks and drinks.

My only concern is, can I suggest this without it coming across as too much pursuit especially if he's in a period of pullback? (Am I interrupting his man cave time?) also I wasn't going to invite him to anything else and wait and see if he'd invite me, not sure if this counts.

But I do really like the sound of it, it sounds really fun! I bet H would love it too. You're right I think he may be a bit flummoxed by the flirtation. Just don't want to scare the deer...

So what about..."H, since you don't have cash to go out this weekend I was thinking what if we did a fun day in on Saturday? Movie marathon and snacks and drinks?"

Men out there - when you are in cave mode, would this work or would it be too much?