I have an idea for this weekend. Why don't you make it an adventure with H? How about a Three Stooges marathon with his favorite snacks and drinks?
I like this ^^^.
Maybe you could also work in a suggestion about something for him to help you out. Men like to fix stuff. Something like "this dang blender is acting up, do you think you could help me with this so we can have some margaritas?"
I know it would make me feel good helping out my W. It seems to hit most men in a couple of places: being Mr. Fix-it, helping our "helpless" W, and coming to her rescue. It would be a nice ego stroke for me.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15