Originally Posted By: susana4
He did all the dishes and cleaned the kitchen but insisted I not help him and I go read. Not sure what that was about because I wanted to help. I think AoS may be his LL but he won't really ever let me do AoS.

When I do things like this and tell my W that I don't want help and to go do something fun it is because it is a loving action from me. To me it is a feeling that I would rather spend my time doing a chore and helping out so my W could have time doing something that she would like.

Not sure if that is what he is feeling, but that is what I feel when I do the similar things.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15