Also when should i have this talk, i mean we just talked last night. any help would be great. I know there is no quick fix and i need to start doing things for the better outcome of myself and not in hopes that it fixes us. i have to say i don't feel as much doom and gloom as i thought i would. i actually feel better after that convo. then before, is that a bad thing! I feel lighter in the chest and shoulders.
