I assumed H was going out for his regular Thursday drinks with his two best guy friends, so I went to buy groceries and when I came back he had also just gotten back from buying groceries (because he got home, assumed I wasn't in and he needed to make dinner). We had a laugh.
I cooked and he helped but he was not talkative. He wasn't cold but he definitely wasn't warm, or flirtatious.
He did all the dishes and cleaned the kitchen but insisted I not help him and I go read. Not sure what that was about because I wanted to help. I think AoS may be his LL but he won't really ever let me do AoS.
Now (after dinner) hes sat on the sofa watching a show on his laptop with headphones on.
I expected the pullback and for him to go to his cave but I still find it a little hard.
What's the best way to deal with it?
He asked me what I was up to this weekend and said he has no plans and no money for going out so he'll be at home all weekend working or watching TV.
Does this mean I need to make extra GAL plans? I feel like I shouldn't let my weekend be impacted by him yet inevitably it will be if he's going to be sat round the house all weekend. Especially if he's still going to be in his "cave".
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
