We've established that we will try to be together once on the weekend and once during the middle of the week. Because it's rare that we can be spontaneous, she will need to agree to a time. She's against real "scheduling" like "every Sat pm". So I said, then let me know which night or let me know a window of time for me to initiate.

I did ask that at least once a week, she initiate by giving me a warning hours in advance. My story was that it would drive the "anticipation" levels up, but the real reason is that it will get her into 2 habits...1. thinking about sex earlier in the day. 2. Learning to to "mentally" prepare herself and psych herself up throughout the day. This will increase the "sex thinking" during the day

I think the overall goal of the LD should be to increase the amount of "sex thinking".

She said that if I want to initiate, that I will basically need to ask "which night this weekend?" or something. Hmmm. Once again...the anticipation is there because it's known in advance.