SD So that was you and Mrs. SD on that hillside in Yorkshire 24 years ago. I thought it was a couple of odd looking sheep.
I know when my wife initiates, because she either 1)grabs Mr. Happy; or 2) says, "do you wanna fool around?" Actually, the last time we ML was in September 2003, right after my vasectomy, and she grabbed Mr. Happy and said, "let's see if this thing still works." I thought that was actually pretty cool.
But I don't get the "internal initiating" thing your W does. I'd either let it drop, or say, "If you ever initiate sex, and I don't seem to be responding it's because I am not aware that you are initiating sex, or I'm asleep, or I'm dead. If I'm not aware, please make me aware. If I'm asleep, wake me up. If I'm dead, call the undertaker."
Frankly, when she told you this, I'm surprised you didn't let the teddies fly out of the pram!
