Totally makes sense starsky...I guess I even get that There is no guarantee to any of this but if I wasn't something to change,I have to be that change. Working on it too. I have dumped multiple ideas on the last week simply because they were either spite based or magic bullet pipe dreams. I am now focusing more on me instead of her and trying to make me better while also trying to not enable her.
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14