normally you do great with your interactions but just got to pick you up on this ^^^^^^^. when you said that i expect you were trying to put her ease but what you actually said was
'I want to remind you that i sent you an email about finances that you havent responded to yet, and i want you to know that i expect a response'
so easy to do this kind of stuff, the only reason i dont do it constantly is because my STBXW and I barely communicate.
I've not seen one for a while but a few times i've seen both Wonka and 25 do a translations/interpretations of someone's letter or email and they are priceless for understanding how we let our hurts and anguish project even when we are trying not to. If you've not seen it might be worth a bit of hunt round the forum.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
