a) Buy a little time on the house front, pending legal advice, whilst acknowledging we need to attend to it b) Draw H out a little further (if possible)on the R front in a warm and validating way without revealing 'my hand' or asking direct questions or pressuring.
Sounds like a good plan to me. it might be a bit of tight rope though so where you can slow things down and take your time.
and i'm happy with the starsky script endorsement, maybe im finally learning.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
