I am interested to see what happens next with the wife. This is probably a very big reality check for her. When I first told her to leave our house because of OM. She went and lived with her mom for six months. Then when I decided to sell the house, she moved in to it when I moved out. So finding a place by her self or with OM for REAL (knowing her in her teenage stage she is in right now) might sock her. They have looked at places before when their dream land was so bright and sunny. But maybe that dream is starting to turn grey. But what do I know, all that is assuming and assuming is BAD. I am interested in which spouse comes out. Will it be this spouse I haven't seen much of that spews at me or will I keep getting the spouse that just doesn't talk to me except when it benefits her. I prefer that later. Much easer to deal with. We will see!
Ending on a bright note. The paper work I've been waiting for finally came. I have insurance through my company but it is terrible. My company does not meet the guidelines for the state on insurance. Although I am not covered, my kids are fully covered through the state now. Which is a huge releaf for me. Even though we never go to the doctor(knock on wood), they are covered. I could really care less about me. This is awesome.
Thanks, 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced