Before Starsky calls me out for mindreading, I will just state the facts and would love opinions on why in god's name they did this...
Last night, I was with my good budy at our favorite local bar/restaurant after I went to the movies. Just hanging out, chatting and having a pint. All of a sudden the OW's vehicle with OW in it drives by really slow on the street in front of the bar. Front of bar is one big huge beautiful window so I proclame "Hey, that is XXXXX's car" 30 seconds later, here goes the vehicle the other way going slow, looking all over, trying to look into the restaurant. A few minutes later....drives by a 3rd time. 5 minutes later a 4th time. It literally went on a total of 5 or 6 times! Each time driving slowly, looking around, looking into the bar. I don't know if the way I was sitting and the proximity to the door blocked OW's view of me enough that she couldn't recognize me or what but what the heck was that all about? I wanted to go out there sooooo bad...but I did not. I wanted to have a cigarette soooooo bad....but I did not. I was bugged that I cannot go out and enjoy a single night a week with friends without now apparently having a tail...
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14