Does our good date change anything? Not really. It proved to me that we still have a spark - if we can make each other laugh and flirt like teenagers for 5 1/2 hours straight. Who knows if that spark will lead anywhere. But in terms of my course of action? It doesn't change a thing.
I have never been comfortable with early stages of dating (if I can think of it like that). I think it comes back to anxiety, uncertainty, fear of lack of control.
I'm going to try to see this as another opportunity to practice letting go of outcomes.
This sounds good, Susana ^^^. Remember, us guys have that whole "rubber band" thing that we do ANYWAY, and that's even in relationships that AREN'T going thru changes. So don't get too discouraged if he pulls back right now. We're pretty predictable that way.
