That is some valuable intel there, and I am glad the stories align pretty well now.
I would continue doing what you have been, following the DB Coach's advice, because there is no way to tell what W may, or may not do.
She IS noticing your changes, and it is throwing her off.
Here's a thread that Cadet put in his new Welcome thread, there is some golden wisdom in it I'd like you to read and ruminate on. I think it'll help you:
