The questions is not whether he is gone for good this time or not. The question is are you? He is still spinning and probably will be for a long time if not forever. You need to determine if you have finally moved on and put the old husband / MLCer behind you without the need to look back. If you are you need to stop having feelings about where he is in the process or letting his spew control your emotions.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"