I have spent a # of hours with a lawyer. W has been gone 5-7 days a week for 18 months now and the lawyer's 35 year's of experience tells her that the frequency and duration W has been away from the child, compounded with that W has introduced constantly the OW into D's life, and that the state in which I live is not a liberal one, and some of the mental/verbal threats W has made to D6 all compound. W literally has not eaten supper with D6 & I 50 times in the last 365 frown Gone until 11pm, midnight, 1am, 2am 3am + almost nightly... Not healthy for the child and as the lawyer describes it, custody is about what is best for the child and it sounds like W does not have the child as her best interest.


Me:39 W:33
Married 6/07
D6
Found out about affair 9/14