Things evolve AT LEAST until reality sets in or there is no need for contact with the ex-spouse. Sometimes reality sets in relatively quickly, other times it seems like never as the person chooses to live in delusion.
Good job on keeping your emotions in check, 3kids! The more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just like anything else, you get better with practice.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
