Originally Posted By: Toots
Hi Susana. Yes it sounded like a positive evening! And that's good rather than otherwise, but as you say things remain uncertain. It's always best not to wonder too much and to bring your mind back to you and the person you want to become....with or without H in the picture.

The future of your marriage will be decided in some way and at some point....As V loves to say...no doubt all will unravel in good time...

Thanks for your comments on my thread too - much appreciated! :-)

Thanks Toots. Yes, I feel myself getting distracted from my focus on me, by wondering what is going on in his head right now with all of this. Which is futile.

Of course, which I had more advice on how to handle it, hope someone can help you word the email but happy to support. smile


Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.