I told her I would be happy to help her get the truck, but I am not going to get on her loan if she is planning on leaving our marriage. I told her I am just protecting myself. She said she does not want out of the marriage.
DO YOU BELIEVE HER?
Originally Posted By: Joe406
She is just tired of the fighting. I told her that we did not fight like this before this job thing came up. Before this problem, we had arguments but nothing like we have been having. I guess I just don't want to share my wife that way.
SO what is it about this job that is the issue? Do you think she is cheating? Maybe more transparency in the job would help you feel more secure.
To me it sounds like you are holding money over her head as a CONTROL issue? It also sounds like she is preparing for a possible exit.
On the flip side of it before the job maybe she just succumbed to you. Now she has a job and might feel that she can do whatever she wants.
I think you need to LET GO and whatever will be, will be.
