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On the odd bits. Mmmm I can see where you're coming from, may just be he's a private person but yes I can see why that would be a concern to you right now.

My advice would be, yes, be mindful of it and certainly dont move on until you do feel comfortable with it. Maybe use that wicked humour of yours to ask if he's a secret agent and this is a cover story or similar, relax and be you keep in mind no expectations which Im going to have made into a t-shirt I think