Hi Toots, On the house stuff I think you should definitely leave it till you've spoken to the L. On the R thing, I don't think there's anything wrong with restating your position (the way you stated it is very much a declaration of fact, and not pushing him or asking for anything), but maybe a vet will have a different view. Hopefully one will come along and help you draft a reply.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
