That's a great post train. I recognise all those situations above. Got hit with No1 last night. Regularly get No2 not had to deal with 3 yet 4 we briefly talked about, 5 I get every day.
Rysin I would tread real careful. As you already know things just don't turn around that quick. If it is a divorce talk then you need to stop the conversation and refer it to your L. I'm not sure I'd want to get in any talks. I made this mistake 2 weeks ago where she was balling her eyes out all weekend throwing bones of hope at me I got involved was weak and gave her and me comfort. 2 days later she was back to lying and meeting OM.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on