Wife having emotional affair 5

[3kids]

I feel a storm a brewing!

So living in a small town in America is kind of funny. Last night the MIL posted something on Facebook about her daughter needing to find a cheap place to live. Because her house sold and needed to find a place for her(daughter) and family until she was finished with college. Some people called me to congratedulate me on selling the house. And others that know what's going on called or texted to laugh because either Mr. Wonderful isn't helping her or because her mommy has to help her find a place to live. I kind of just acknoledged all the comments. But was unsure on how I felt. After thinking about it for a little bit, my disappointment subsided. I was down because I was thinking of it as a negative(she isn't coming home). But then I started to look at it as a positive. First she isn't getting a place with OM, at least then she wouldn't be asking for help from family. Second, maybe this is a good thing. She can finally see what real life is. With ALL the bills and new place and new life.

Then came tonight's quick spew at me. She called to ask if she could schedual the little guys friend birthday party on my weekend(the one she was suppose to plan two weekends ago and now this weekend but hasn't). I was at work and told her that I would have to look at my schedual at home and get back to her. I asked "I thought you where going to do it this weekend". She blew up that she has to much going on (we do have some kid stuff but mostly OM is going back home, I think). "What ever I'll figure it out". I said before you hang up did you look at what I asked you to do(insurance mail). "I'll text you later,click". Apperantly she can't talk to me or was so upset that I didn't give in to her way she didn't want to talk. I almost let my emotions get the best of me. But held back. I have a feeling more of this is going to come in the near future.

I can tell because the kids are texting me all night. And they only do that if mom is screaming at them and they have locked them selves in there room. I think life is hitting her so time for LBS to get the kick back dumping. So I'm looking forward to the challenge of controlling my anger and my emotions. It will be a good test for me.

Thanks,
3kids