Hi hrdtims, I've been reading your story and the support you've received over the last few days. I am sorry that you found yourself in these straits but I am glad that you seem to be in a better place than you had been previously. I believe I recall you relating a talk that you had with your WAW and kids, which must have been very difficult. In any event, upon reading your story, I was surprised to see the many similarities in between your sitch and mine. I recently posted a thread entitled "WAW / MLC - which way is up (or out)" on this topic outlining my sitch and was wondering if you could give it a quick read and give me your two cents.