I shed a lot of tears the other day, but it was because I was writing a tribute for my father. It was the 15th anniversary of the last time I seen him alive.

Writing the tribute also made me ask myself what my father would do in my situation. He would have road of into the sunset. He would not have cried, begged or pleaded. He would have not said a negative word. I remembered him telling me when my first girlfriend broke up with me, you can't control what another person is going to do. He was a wise old cowboy!

Spent quality time with SND20 today, we went to a thrift store she likes and walked around for an hour. I am blessed to have her!

Vanilla made a post on Mozza's thread about detachment and it turned a light bulb on in my head. Thank you V!

Jbird

M 53
W 44
D25 D20 S22
PA 10/95
BD abt 2k EA
BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05
DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005
XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005
Remarried 12/28/07
BD 12/18/14
Sep living together