So I am divorced.

[mahhhty]

Vapo -

I've sat on your response for days. Reading and re-reading. I can tell your response has merit and experience behind it, and honestly I can fathom or rationalize your response and think it may be correct, but I think for me hope is a requirement. Although I have hope, I don't have expectations. The process has taught me better than that. However, hope provides me motivation to workout, read the books, go to school on myself and our relationship and make changes in my life.