How in the world do I do that w/o her knowing that I'm snooping? If there was a pattern of articles like that I'd be more concerned, but that was the only one I could find. The article itself wouldnt have been exactly encouraging to her if she were serious.
THIS is why I was pushing so hard for agreed-upon NC and full transparency. Which everyone on your thread resisted, most of all YOU.
Not sure what to tell you now. You're definitely between a rock and a hard place, and I've only said what I would personally do, and that's confront the hen leaving the chicken coop door open (albeit ajar) to the predator.
